6 Things Not To Do While Making Love
by: Tim Wintle
|Lovemaking should be the ultimate feeling for both of you, but
sometimes it can feel less than special. To help you get the
most from the moment here are six things which you should avoid
doing while making the beast with two backs.
1) Calling out another person's name.
Unless you have both agreed to role-play beforehand this is a
definite no-no and it's very likely to get you into trouble with
your partner. If you are extremely comfortable together then
dropping it in could bring some extra kink into lovemaking as
part of a spontaneous role-play, but no matter how close you
are, if it comes out too naturally it will always hurt your
2) Ask if he's cum yet.
This can upset men for two main reasons; firstly that it
immediately gives the impression that you are just waiting for
the experience to be over (If you are he's not going to finish
any faster if he knows that, it'll deflate his ego), and
secondly because for a man much of the sexual act is based
around orgasm, and the idea that you don't even know his intense
moment of pleasure can take from the moment.
3) Excessive groaning
There can be few things that bring greater pleasure than hearing
your lover groaning with pleasure, but if you make too much
extra noise to try to make your partner feel good you risk the
opposite - giving the impression that you are purely putting on
a show and possibly removed from the act.
4) Continuing watching TV / Reading a book
Come on, your lover wants to feel you are shaking their world,
not that you would rather be watching your favourite soap opera.
5) Pretending they are a specific character.
Role-play can be fun for both partners, and many couples enjoy
enacting their policeman/woman, nurse or other fantasies with
their partner. You may find your partner isn't quite so
comfortable if they think you are imagining them as your
childhood pinup or ex-partner, though.
6) Taking it too seriously
If you accidentally do any of the above then make sure you do
not do this! Nearly every situation in bed can be laughed off.
Which of us has never tripped or fallen over during lovemaking,
if you take it too seriously it'll spoil the mood, laugh
together and sharing the laughter will make you feel closer.
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